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second hand dog has become commonplace. He may be a champion
you purchase from a fine kennel. She may be an established brood
bitch you wish to add to your breeding program. Or it may be a
dog who was disappointing as a show prospect. More often than
not, the secondhand dog is slated for pet hood and his somewhat
checkered past is rarely revealed in full. In fact, the dog in
your life who needs a bit of patching and refurbishing may even
be a found dog, a treasure left somewhere to fend for himself
in a cold, cold world.
Whether the older, used
, secondhand, pass-around dog you know was recycled for a "legitimate"
reason or not, you will have taken on a problem. Solving the problem,
or more accurately, the set of problems that come with
your new pet, can be most satisfying, and necessary pastime.
If your secondhand dog
has been abused, neglected or battered in any way, even by being
low man on his pack's totem pole, you'll want to change your rules
and standards for him, at least for a few months. I would not
take a dog who had been wandering the streets or neglected in
a kennel run and teach it not to jump up. In fact, I'd be delighted
to see a dog with that history jumping up to say hello. And while
any new dogs needs a dose of R and R (rules and regulations),
the hand-me-down dog needs more than that. He needs in fact, more
of everything: more good food; more grooming; more contact; more
company; more bonding activities; more long, solitary walks with
you; more exposure to your particular environment; more time in
your car; more games; more patient training.

FC Shenandoah Drummer Boy. Drummer's
record included 37 AKC wins, 29 points, 4 majors, 17 American
field wins: 1969 All Age Dog of the Year, Associated Bird
Dog Clubs of Ohio. He was the WCA Eastern Field CH and in
1969, the WCA National Open CH. BD January 11, 1963 |
Since every dog has a
history, if your new friend comes without one - or with a sketchy
one - careful observation will help fill in the missing details.
You'll never get them all, but you'll get a surprising amount
of information by watching quietly while your dog adjusts to his
new home and new playmates. You'll learn more by watching without
interfering than you'll learn by jumping in and trying to control
what he does. Eventually, alone with him, collar and leash securely
on your pet, the training process will be another stage in your
learning about him, while he learns to understand what you want
and what you'll praise or correct.
While each of us has
certain standards of behavior for our pets, the secondhand dog,
in some severe cases, may not be able to live up to your most
fair standards. Something in his past, something you may or may
not know about, may eliminate the possibility of you using a crate,
for example. There are some dogs that will not tolerate confinement,
especially if they are grown when first exposed to it. In this
case, the dog may be destructive when left alone. This is a most
difficult rehabilitation case because it will take a month or
more to work the dog out of it. The chore of conniving the dog
that past is past and this is now, will take time and cannot be
done with words. But if you are one of those who feels that "if
it isn't me who'll help, who will it be," here are some guidelines
for helping a slightly or very used dog to adjust well to your
new and loving home. Remember that you may not be able to do all
of these things with every pass-around dog, particularly, as stated,
item #1.
1. Buy and use a
crate. Give your wanderer a permanent
den, a room with a view, a place to call home, somewhere where
he can dream and rest in peace. In most cases, the crate
will offer security to the dog who badly needs just that. Some
dogs will do better with the crate in the hub of the house- the
den or the kitchen. Others need a quiet place. Some like a good
view and even some conversation while they rest. Others need a
towel draped over the crate or the comfort of a semi-closed-up,
airline-type crate rather than the all-wire models. This can be
discovered only by trial and error. Luckily, most of these dogs,
even the homeliest ones, are so sweet and needy that you won't
want to stop trying until you get the job done.
2. Bonding is urgent.
Make time for the dog in your life. Tie your new dog's leash to
your belt and keep him attached for five minutes at a time, working
up to an hour a day, indoors and out. Tie-on time is silent time.
Don't keep hammering away at the animal in an effort to get acquainted.
Don't be a distracter. Let him understand the full implication
of the physical attachment to you (leash on belt) and let him
make the decision to watch you. Dogs are not verbal animals. Give
him time to absorb the way things are in silence. He's smart.
He'll get it. He'll become attached to you as figuratively as
he is literally in this exercise.
3.
Train with patience, affection and quiet firmness. Your
rules and regulations will help make the dog secure in his new
home. But he has lost something profound. He'll need good reasons
to feel proud of himself again. You can give him those. Whenever
he does something worthy, let him know it. Don't gush and stop
the training. Coo to him like his mother used to and keep the
work flowing. Work is the best medicine for anxious, insecure
creatures. It even works for people in trouble.
4. Give your pass-around
pet the best diet you can afford.
He needs it to combat the stress of change. Even if the change
is for the better, it will still cause stress at first.
5. Explore with our
new dog. First explore your house
and grounds with him. If your "grounds" are your block, fine.
Explore it. Continue off your property and into your neighborhood.
Make big circles, the way he would. Walk around the block one
way and reverse the next. Walk from your driveway left and go
right the next day. You can watch him getting familiar with the
turf and enjoying knowing where home is. Ah, home. Who doesn't
feel that way? Now, play a game with him. When you get near home
( a house away, a block away, an acre away), tell him GO HOME,
GO HOME and run him to your door. Now, get down with him and praise
and hug. Kissing is in order, too. Here's a dog who'll soak up
affection. That, in fact, is on of the rewards of working with
a slightly used dog. Now take your dog out in the car when you
have places to go. Show him the world. Make him bold. Make him
yours.
6. Grooming time
isn't just for knots and mats. Grooming
him relaxes both of you It's another quiet way of getting the
message across - I love you, kid. You're here to stay.
Grooming is a nice ending for a walk, a training session, or a
hectic day.
7.The dog is a contemplative
animal. He's a hairy computer. He
likes to looks around, take things in , occasionally make a print
out. Take some long, silent walks with your new friend. Get to
know him away from home, away from your kennel, your kids, your
other dogs, your phone, your cuisinart, your answering machine,
your power mower, Go someplace quiet and pretty and watch your
little sponge soak it up. Learn to see like a dog, like this dog.
You'll love it.
8. Bed your new dog
down in your room. That's seven
or eight hours of bonding time at no cost to you. Again, it's
an important message. You belong to me. But don't , in
your zealousness, let the dog spend the night on the bed with
you. This message says, We're equals. And, of course, you're
not. While you may have to put up with a time of crying or destruction
or jumping that you would not tolerate from a dog who started
out with you, still you do not want to initiate anything that
is false, that is a lie. Keep the dog in his place, in his crate
or on a mat, but in your room, Staying alpha will help get the
proper message to your dog. And that will help the rehabilitation
process along too.
It is not true that
a puppy will only make a strong bond during the first few months
of this life. And, while it is indeed wonderful to bring home
a wooly ball that still smells like mother's milk and raise him
"from scratch," a secondhand dog can also become a fast friend.
He can indeed bond well to a second owner and he can indeed provide
the kind of loyalty and companionship that bonds all of us to
the family of the dog. The rehabilitation of a secondhand dog
is , in fact, a rich project, one you're unlikely to regret or
forget.
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